How To Defeat A Narcissistic Sociopath

“I have never met a narcissistic sociopath who has any skills beyond distracting, suppressing, and destroying an innocent person, which is why it’s imperative that the receiver of the abuse neutralizes and then destroys this sick human being." - Jared Yellin

I want to preface something before you read this article…

It’s going to have a different tone than most of my work BUT…

It has the same INTENT…

EMPOWER PEOPLE WHO ‘SHOULD WIN’ ‘TO WIN’ WITH STRATEGIES, INSPIRATION, AND ACCOUNTABILITY!

That said…

The words I use might come across harsh – they should!

The energy I bring might be overly intense – it must!

The strategy I share might seem rather aggressive – it is!

But I feel deeply called to write this article to support you or someone you know, because I have been on the receiving end of a handful of Narcissistic Sociopaths in my life AND even more importantly – I have helped DOZENS of people who were being “raped” by a sick human who was deploying every possible strategy to emotionally and spiritually ruin an innocent soul. 

I can’t even begin to explain how much I stand against Narcissistic Sociopaths, because, based on my experience, the abuser has no skills, no value, no purpose, no self-esteem — nothing. They exist in the world to cause harm and to control others and I refuse to sit on the sideline and watch the suffering take place which is why this article - more than most - needs to be circulated to anyone that is battling BECAUSE…

It’s IMPERATIVE that you know – YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

And please realize – I have been on the receiving end of this heinous behavior a handful of times and there is an evolution of emotions experienced by integrous humans that become targets, which could lead you to a dark dark place.

Initially, the other party seems absolutely crazy, but as their intensity builds the sentiment shifts as you become convinced that YOU are actually the crazy one. This often leads to people becoming reclusive, isolated, and depressed. I have heard stories of people taking their lives because the abuse became too severe to handle BY THEMSELVES, which is why I feel called to share what has worked for me and I guarantee it will work for you or someone you care about.

Just so you know…Narcissistic Sociopaths show up in a variety of ways…

I know people who are in a relationship or marriage to a Narcissistic Sociopath and the only way this person can find a sense of control is by “controlling the food they put into their bodies,” leading to the irreversible damage associated with an eating disorder.

I know people who have a boss who is a Narcissistic Sociopath who emotionally abuses the individual to such a degree that they get diagnosed with an auto-immune disease due to the stress they experienced during the time working together.

I know people who went into business with a Narcissistic Sociopath who hid their antics for a short period of time until they saw the opportunity to STRIKE and then proceeded to abuse the legal system in order to create a false narrative around this completely innocent human.

And the list could go on and on…

For some reason, I attract people who are on the receiving end of the abuse and yearning for support and in each case there are similarities, which is why I am BEYOND confident that the strategies I share below will work for you or someone you care about – because they have worked for many others prior to you. 

But I really want to make sure this is clear…

My nature is NEVER to fight.

I believe in focusing on ways to create WIN-WIN outcomes where both parties achieve more TOGETHER than they ever could on their own.

And as much as I believe in this thesis to my core, I am even more of a believer in absolutely annihilating Narcissistic Sociopaths, because these people have the potential to ruin what’s possible for another individual simply due to their own insecurity and lack of self-worth.

Therefore…

PLEASE know my charge in this article comes from a place of extraordinary levels of love and equal amounts of empathy because I get it. I’ve been there before and my goal is to help you or someone you know LEAVE that dark place as the VICTOR so you can be set FREE. 

7 Strategies To Neutralize + Destroy The Narcissistic Sociopath Who Is On A Mission To Ruin Your Life

Strategy 1: Whatever they call you…THEY ARE!

I know someone right now who is in a brutal battle with a Narcissistic Sociopath who continues to create a narrative around the innocent soul that they are a fraud and a liar. The NOT SO irony is that the Narcissistic Sociopath has and continues to commit fraud, while also has committed adultery in each marriage and within every serious relationship as well. 

BUT by declaring YOU ARE what THEY ARE, their hope is to distract the world and pin their lies, their character faults, their sickness on YOU.

SOOOOO

Don’t let them!

Simply commit to NOT believing what they say, because the moment you lose sight of who you truly are – they got you.

I don’t care how you do it, but do something to not forget the wonderful human that exists and looks back at you from the mirror. 

Remind yourself of how you show up in your relationship, and with your kids, and for your friends, and in your business, and in your faith, etc.

Remember, Narcissistic Sociopaths offer ZERO value and have NO skills whatsoever, so their goal is to convince you that you have zero value and no skills, so eventually you cave in and live in darkness, but their antics will NEVER be able to overcome your conviction into WHO YOU ARE AT A SOUL LEVEL!

Strategy 2: Let them feel like they won the battle, but never lose the war.

The American Revolutionary War is a great example of this strategy, because the British won several early battles, but the Colonists ultimately won the war, gaining independence from Britain.

Each time I am personally faced with a Narcissistic Sociopath OR I offer support to someone else, I keep on reminding them of this strategy because losing a few battles is a fast path to have the Narcissistic Sociopath get “high on their own supply,” which will take their eye off the prize of destroying you and gives you the chance to STRIKE in way that rocks their world, exposes their antics and puts an end to your pain and suffering. 

Individual battles don’t matter. It’s strategic to identify ones where a loss gets you closer to a win, because the only thing that really makes a difference is that you prevail and become victorious in the war. 

And just for the record – I wish this was not the case. I wish the Narcissistic Sociopath who is hurting you or someone you know simply came to their senses and stopped, but they won’t until you cut them at the ankles and ensure their pain is so severe that they NEVER mess with you or your family or your business or anyone for that matter ever again. 

Listen, I know this is not easy but you have been called to neutralize and destroy this disgraceful human so ‘it is what it is’ and the key is to be victorious during the war. 

Strategy 3: Polly wants a cracker.

What happens when you talk with a parrot?!

They repeat what you say – my kids love this btw…

But for the sake of you WINNING, you need to become a parrot with the Narcissistic Sociopath in your life or someone you care about, because what will inevitably happen is the abominable human will not recall where their lies end and the truth begins.

“So you are telling me I am a fraud, even though I delivered on the exact requirements for the project and did not take any compensation?”

“So you are telling me I am a liar, even though I have been and will continue to be loyal to my wife through eternity?”

“So you are telling me that I did wrong by you, even though we have not spoken or interacted in a few years and I don’t ever think about you.”

Repeating back what the other party says will help anchor it in your memory and it will fluster what the Narcissistic Sociopath is saying to you and others. These people often believe they are above God, so it’s my and your responsibility to bring them down to Earth and have them experience whatever punishments they are responsible for. 

But become a parrot with them. I know it will be scary at first but I promise the more you do this, the more intel and data you will collect, which will then be used to get onto offense and WIN! 

Strategy 4: Be prepared at all times.

The entire strategy of the Narcissistic Sociopath is to control you by showing up with various energies…

Sometimes they go above and beyond to acknowledge you…

Other times they are committed to breaking you down…

Then they edify you in public…

Then they destroy you behind the scenes…

Then they give you something…

And then they take even more away!

So…

BE PREPARED!

Just know that NOTHING that they do is authentic besides when they are trying to hurt you. 

So…

Don’t fall for it. 

Don’t let them bait you.

Don’t let your guard down.

Instead, be prepared and placate their kindness and get ready to strike because they are most vulnerable when they feel the need to pull you in closer with gestures that appear to be derived from the right place.

When you are prepared with a Narcissistic Sociopath – you are empowered, you realize your strength, and you know you are unstoppable.

This is how I do it…

I repeat this quote over and over and over again and as I repeat it – I LIVE IT!

“Confidence is my presence. Never tense. Never hesitant.” And when I repeat this quote over and over and over again I picture my wife and kids.

Now it’s your turn…

Strategy 5: Never steer away from your truth.

The ultimate goal of the Narcissistic Sociopath is to have you FORGET your TRUTH!

You might wonder why and the answer is…

YOUR TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!

EVERY person I have helped neutralize and destroy their abuser initially lost sight of their truth.

They began to believe what the Narcissistic Sociopath convinced them to believe.

They began to forget what makes themselves so special.

They began to hide from the rest of the world because they were so ashamed.

And when our paths crossed I beat a new methodology into their brain – YOUR TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!

Stop being afraid.

Stop being broken.

Stop being a victim.

Let’s get your TRUTH into the world and that’s what we did.

I got these people to share their truth EVERYWHERE - podcasts, media, social, newsletters, one-to-one, one-to-many - they turned their OBSTACLE into their WAY!

And they did this NOT ONLY to set themselves FREE, but also to help those who are currently in a situation that they found a way out of.

Their Narcissistic Sociopath became the catalyst for their soul purpose. 

And as they emerged - guess what happened - the Narcissistic Sociopath became even more self conscious and tried to fight and claw and distract them back to the shell of who they once were, but their effort was futile because THEIR TRUTH HAS SET THEM FREE!

Strategy 6: Initiate a groundswell of courage.

I am not sure if the name Larry Nassar means anything to you, but is an American serial child rapist and former family medicine physician. From 1996 to 2014, he was the team doctor of the United States women's national gymnastics team, where he used his position to exploit and sexually assault hundreds of young athletes as part of the largest sexual abuse scandal in sports history.

How was Larry neutralized and destroyed?

ONE PERSON had the courage to SPEAK THEIR TRUTH and then that one person gave over 150 other people who were abused by Larry the courage to speak up as well, which led to a groundswell of courage.

I GUARANTEE that the Narcissistic Sociopath is a serial Narcissistic Sociopath, which means you are absolutely NOT the first person that this individual is attempting to destroy – but what if you were the last?!?!

A groundswell of courage is the ultimate exposure and it’s THE THING that neutralizes and finally DESTROYS this heinous and sick human being, just like Larry Nassar who eventually was sentenced to 125 years in prison which is also where his life was taken by a group of inmates. The 150+ ladies who were abused by this disgusting man can’t go back and change their history, but they absolutely can use the moment when Larry was finally exposed to change their present and future.

AND here’s where you COME IN!

You become the catalyst for people to write THEIR story – because you tapped into your internal courage which then empowered them to do the same.

SOOOOO

Please know you are NOT alone - besides for ME - once you begin the process of exposing the truth others will come - I promise you - they always do!

Strategy 7: Extrovert when everything inside tells you to introvert.

Finally number 7 which I believe is THE most important strategy…

EXTROVERT when everything inside is telling you to introvert.

MOST people will go to a very dark place when their Narcissistic Sociopath strikes.

They isolate…

They hide…

They suppress…

They become a shell of who they truly are…

Part of this is fear…

Part of this is disgrace…

Part of this is shame…

Part of this is they don’t know what to do…

So I am going to tell you what to do…

EXTROVERT!

Each time I have been faced with my Narcissistic Sociopath, I literally FORCE myself to do the exact opposite that my mind, body, and soul is telling me to do and I get around people who love and care about me, I do the things that help me love and care about me, and I look myself in the eyes constantly and share my truth.

PLEASE KNOW THIS…

Your Narcissistic Sociopath is WEAK and they have NOTHING ON YOU so when you EXTROVERT just wait and see who INTROVERTS - it’s them - the loser who brings no skills, no value, no purpose, no self-esteem — nothing.

I PROMISE YOU…

EXTROVERT and you WIN!

Now What?

Like I mentioned in the beginning of this article, if you have followed my work for some time the tone in this message could be perceived as different, but in reality it serves the same purpose as anything else I write, speak, or share…

EMPOWER PEOPLE WHO ‘SHOULD WIN’ ‘TO WIN’ WITH STRATEGIES, INSPIRATION, AND ACCOUNTABILITY!

YES, there is more bite in this article than most.

YES, there is more aggression in this article than most.

YES, there is more intensity in this article than most.

But my reason is simple…

I have been on the receiving end of a Narcissistic Sociopath, but even more importantly, I have had countless people approach me with stories that keep me up at night, which motivated me to assemble this full-proof strategy so that if you are currently facing, face in the future, or know someone who is facing a narcissistic sociopath – WINNING is the only option.

Because the Narcissistic Sociopath in your life is soooooo weak….

They are also soooo lost…

They are also soooo meaningless…

And this is why they are trying to attack you, hurt you, distract you, and ruin your life.

It’s the only thing that makes them feel remotely important and valuable, but I refuse to have this happen to me and I refuse with even more intensity to see this happen to you.

So the answer to NOW WHAT is the following…

1. Reach out to me for support.

2. Implement the 7 strategies from above.

3. WIN.

But I want to drive home a VERY VERY important point.

I believe the reason you or someone you know is dealing with a Narcissistic Sociopath is because you are powerful beyond measure…

You can and will handle this person…

You can and will neutralize this person…

You can and will destroy this person…

The reason this matters is because you are NOT the first person on the receiving end of this destructive human and you won’t be the last UNLESS you win!

AND REMEMBER…

God was not confused when he tagged you to neutralize and destroy your Narcissistic Sociopath, because he knows you have the power to expose the truth and put an end to the destruction.

BUT - take it from me - it won’t be easy, there will be countless times you want to retreat, and often you won’t know if you are making any progress but STAY the course and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE x 10,000 remember…

YOU ARE NOT ALONE…

TOGETHER we will put an end to this sicko! 

Live with Intention,